How Can I Gain Confidence

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To have confidence means you have accept who you are. The capability to believe and most of all, trust in yourself puts you in control. How Can I Gain Confidence is not that difficult, my lady, it takes awhile to master, so have patience with yourself.


Confidence is a process and a soft skill you can learn. You gain a positive attitude from knowing and developing your strengths. Start with small improvements and slowly progress. Work hard to get better at your skills and confidence will follow


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How Can I Gain Confidence

13 Qualities of a Confident Person

  • Positive attitude. Always see the bright side of a situation, be able to find solutions, be happy and laugh a lot. Be known as the friendly lady.

  • You love and accept who you are. Believe in yourself and know you are capable.

  • Respect is admiration for the values, behaviour and achievements of a person, that put them in high esteem. Be that person.

  • Be grateful for what you have and appreciate what others have. Never compare.

  • Make sure your facts and speak with certainty. Refrain from saying “I don’t know”, rather say nothing.

  • Be modest, but do share your success if asked. As a matter of fact, ask questions and let other people talk. Bragging comes from low self-confidence.

  • Assertiveness is making statements in a firm tone of voice. It is a quality of self-assurance without being aggressive or rude. Think before you speak and learn to express yourself clearly. Speak your mind in a calm and diplomatic way.

  • Do the right thing, judge your behaviour against your values. To live with integrity feeds confidence.

  • Be authentic and an individualis. Don’t follow the crowd and become a nobody.

  • Live with responsibility. Stop blaming and complaining. Be accountable for your actions.

  • Stick to your word and do what you promised. You are a slave of your promises. Don’t over commit.

  • Dress for success. It brings confidence to look and feel good. Never dress sloppy, always feel sexy and attractive, even when cleaning.

  • Hangout with people more powerful than you.Your environment influences you, you become who and what you associate with.

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How Can I Gain Confidence

What are my Strengths

Self-confidence comes from knowing who you are. What are me strenghts and what are my weaknesses. Everybody has weakness, acknowledge yours, but don’t waste time on it, rather focus on making your strengths stronger. Realise your weaknesses and know how to maneuver around it

Doing introspection and making a list of the things you love to do, are a good start. Those are the strengths to focus on, to become an expert in.

You strong points can be

I am a good



I have patience,

Disciplined and dedicated,

Good organiser,

Positive mindset,

Motivating people,

Baking the best cakes,

I am trustworthy, reliable and responsible,

Compassionate and always there to help.

Find ways to become the ultimate master of your skills. One way is to practice, practice, practice. Take courses and do self-study. No need to have a university degree. The knowledge you gain will create the confidence you want.



Someone with a spiritual belief has an anchor which will make them stronger. It gives you a sense of belonging. Whatever your belief is hold on to it and use it as your foundation to build a strong character with confidence.



To love from you heart and to live with passion is a good pillar for confidence. You will release the dopamine in your body. It makes you feel happy, secure, safe and needed. You will live a life of purpose.


Inner Voice

Your inner voice always has a way to feed you negative information about yourself, and has the capability to steal your confidence.

Keep a watch over your thoughts, don’t let it have the last say.  Ignore it and kick it to the curb. Replace the negative with affirmations of appreciation for the strengths you have, focus on your achievements. You are worth it.

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Previous generations believed, to be humble is a virtue. the same as compassion, patience and kindness. It mostly occurs in the absence of pride, and can be a threat to your confidence.

Your future and success is dependent on what you think of yourself. Build on a believe, you Can and Will achieve your goals.

Push the boundaries of your comfort zone, and find new exciting horizons.

Until next time, take care.


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2 Comments on “How Can I Gain Confidence”

  1. It’s a difficult thing to acknowledge for some of us, that we were raised with negative inner voices. And because of this, we often don’t develop in confidence as we should. This has a negative impact on all aspects of the lives we build for ourselves.

    So our number one priority should be to try and overcome the negative programming we have developed while growing up.
    I agree that it is good to always have a positive attitude and positive expectations for what is to come.
    Gratitude for what we have helps up appreciate our lives as they are. And as you say, it always helps if we think before we speak and act. And then we will act with confidence knowing that when have thought about the best actions to take.

    Thanks for sharing.

    1. Thank you Andrew for your valuable and thoughtful comment!
      Most of the time we put ourselves last, it should be the other way round to live a fulfilled life.
      Thanks for stopping by.

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